Dance Into Your Lust - Online
A 3 month training for all genders and s3xualities
23 September - 16 December 2021
Why Dance Into Your Lust?
Did you know that the word lust in Swedish and in Germanic languages includes the full spectrum of feeling good and the desire to engage in what feels pleasurable? To feel good is part of our human nature, we just need to befriend it and invite all of its different flavors, while at the same time accepting and being curious about the emotions that might be blocking us. I dream of a world where we can explore pleasure outside gender norms and race but still honor what our ancestors bring forward to us. This is what the course is all about.
A space where we move outside race and the binary norm
I see myself as a human and as a woman, but I also see myself as queer and gender fluid.
I was born in Sweden, but I owe non-Western cultures and especially African traditions the embodiment that I have found today.
As a participant in this space, you are expected to want to explore all these sides of yourself and interact with everyone regardless of gender.
What this training can offer you:
- Increased confidence in moving and being in your body
Improved connection and pleasure in your intimate life - Knowing yourself better, what you want and do not want, and how to manifest that in your life
- Increased self-compassion and understanding that "nothing is wrong" with you.
- Being able to move through others people’s and your own difficult emotions with more ease and trust that pleasure will return.
- Feeling more excited about life and what it has to offer.
Program Information
This program is built on connection and interactive exercises. It is developed to move you through different themes all related to our capacity to stay present in our s3xual and emotional selves. There are 7 themes and 5 group coaching sessions. During the coaching, a few individuals will each week receive one-on-one somatic guidance from Li and get support moving through arising challenges.
The tools come from somatic therapy, NARM, dance & movement therapy, tantra, conscious s3xuality, the wheel of consent and lies on a foundation of traditional dances and philosophies from Southern and Eastern Africa.
Schedule and Themes The themes are built up as waves to build up for diving deeper each week. You can also see the themes as a smorgasbord opening up to what areas in your life you would like to expand more within. After each theme, there is a week of sharing and one-on-one coaching to support each participant o their individual journey.
Every session ends with 30 min bonus hang out and Q&A until 21.30 - For many this has been the highlight of each session!
Week 1 - Sep 23 - Why are we here? - Setting intentions, defining our needs, building common ground, and remembering our capacity to feel good through dance and connection. Introducing traditional healing tools from Mozambique.
Week 2 - Sep 30 - Building trust - Self-regulation & co-regulation - Learning tools of self-help from somatic therapy to stay more present move through unexpected emotions. A combination of somatic therapy and Mozambican traditions.
Week 3 - Oct 7 - Sharing and one-on-one coaching.
Week 4 - Oct 14 - Kink and Pleasure - Learn tools from BDSM & the Wheel of Consent™ to set boundaries and increase our pleasure.
Week 5 - Oct 21 - Sharing and one-on-one coaching
Paus - No session Oct 28
Week 6 Nov 4 - Romantic sub-personalities - Looking at attachment and how we act out our unmet needs in our relationships.
Week 7 - Nov 11 - Sharing and one-on-one coaching
Week 8 - Nov 18 - Moving beyond the binary - Who are our role models and who are we on a spiritual level? What gendered subpersonalities do we have and which ones do we want to explore more of?
Week 9 - Nov 25 - Step into your queer s3xual selves! - After defining further why we have become who we are and who we would like to be, this evening is to dress up and step into these parts of ourselves on a sexual level.
Week 10 - Dec 2 - Sharing and one-on-one coaching
Week 11 - Dec 9 - East African Love Making! Henry Kaboye and Julieth Chuwa from Tanzania will teach their traditional way of lovemaking.
Week 12 - Dec 16 - Sharing and one-on-one coaching
Speakers
Henry Kaboye
Henry is a percussionist, musician and dancer from Tanzania. In his tradition, they learn at an early age to feel the body, move the hips and perform dances for ritual purposes to step into manhood. Parts of his teachings include traditional lovemaking rituals where you first learn how to dance and enjoy your own body before you connect with the other. Henry is a Guest Teacher during East African Sexuality session.
Lynn Kreaden
Lynn Kreaden is a Senior Faculty member of The Institute Core Energetics in New York as well as a Core Energetics practitioner with over 30 years of experience in intimacy and sexuality. She works with singles and couples as well survivors of generational cultural and sexual trauma.
She has a private practice in NYC where she leads workshops and training seminars on intimacy sexuality and connection. Lynn teaches internationally where her unique combination of subtle energy healing deep relating and embodied practices leads people to return to their innate wisdom.
Lynn’s platform is about opening the conversations needed today about connection sex consent and intimacy including the interface of technology and how that is increasingly changing the landscape of how we relate. Her passion is helping people remember and live the deliciousness of their being at every level in all aspects of their lives.
Organized by
Li Tadaa is the founder and main space holder for Dance into Your Queer Lust.
Li works as a dance teacher as well as a movement and intimacy coach and aims to change the way we talk about intimacy and support s3xual healing through movement, touch, and listening to the inner messages our bodies are ready to reveal.
Li is gender fluid and pan s3xual and invites people that she works with to expand who they can be.
Li is based in Stockholm and teaches different combinations of dance and s3xuality, through individual sessions, in group intensives, and at festivals. In 2018 they have already taught at Stockholm Tantra Festival, S3xsibility Festival, and Touch & Play both in MA, US, and in Germany.
Li also offers private coaching online and in Stockholm. Read more at www.dancefromtheroot.com
Henry Kaboye
Henry is a percussionist, musician and dancer from Tanzania. In his tradition, they learn at an early age to feel the body, move the hips and perform dances for ritual purposes to step into manhood. Parts of his teachings include traditional lovemaking rituals where you first learn how to dance and enjoy your own body before you connect with the other. Henry is a Guest Teacher during East African Sexuality session.
Lynn Kreaden
Lynn Kreaden is a Senior Faculty member of The Institute Core Energetics in New York as well as a Core Energetics practitioner with over 30 years of experience in intimacy and sexuality. She works with singles and couples as well survivors of generational cultural and sexual trauma.
She has a private practice in NYC where she leads workshops and training seminars on intimacy sexuality and connection. Lynn teaches internationally where her unique combination of subtle energy healing deep relating and embodied practices leads people to return to their innate wisdom.
Lynn’s platform is about opening the conversations needed today about connection sex consent and intimacy including the interface of technology and how that is increasingly changing the landscape of how we relate. Her passion is helping people remember and live the deliciousness of their being at every level in all aspects of their lives.